Waiting for Westboro

canada goose uk shop I wasn’t initially planning on going to Roger Ebert’s funeral. Like many Chicagoans, I mourned his death and memorialized him in private, sharing my sorrows about Canada Goose Outlet his loss amongst friends who counted themselves fellow “Ebert superfans.” My colleague, Leah Pickett, broke the news to me and at first, I was upset with her for suggesting it was even possible. Ebert couldn’t die. However, the Chicago Sun Times confirmed her story. Just as quickly as we had to process the news of his semi retirement, there was this. Ebert was gone, like someone switching off a light. canada goose uk shop

I’ve never cried over a celebrity death before, but I burst into hysterical sobs at the news. I rarely cry, and when I do, it looks more like epilepsy than tears, a flurry of gasps and spasms. Instead of crying, I’m known to slowly leak, like a faucet silently pouring water down a drain. That Thursday, I flooded with emotion, rushing out from every pore. I felt like even my hands were crying.

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cheap canada goose uk However, DNAInfo reported on Sunday, Apr. 7 that the Westboro Baptist Church planned on picketing Roger Ebert’s funeral as retribution for Ebert’s long standing criticism of them. Ebert, a noted humanist and former Catholic, referred to the institution as “odious” and testified his ideological disagreement with them by linking to articles critical of WBC in his many tweets. as attendees filed in for the 10 o’clock service. canada goose black friday sale The hate group said in a (totally normal sounding) press release: cheap canada goose uk

“This fool sold his soul for some canada goose outlet fame fortune, forgetting that God has made a simple declaration regarding His people: ‘Touch not mine anointed, and do my prophets no harm.’ (Psalms 105:15). Now the famed critic is canada goose clearance in a new jurisdiction, where he can see the blessings poured out on God’s humble servants in heaven, from his seat of eternal torment sorrow in Hell!”

uk canada goose outlet For anyone familiar with WBC, you know this trolling, childish behavior is par for the course. This is what they do. Westboro commonly protests military funerals to punish our dead soldiers for society’s sins and mocks the dead to generate publicity. When opponents of the group show up to counterprotest, the group uses this as a way buy canada goose jacket cheap to mobilize the right wing, presenting themselves as marginalized warriors of God in an America that’s leaving them behind. uk canada goose outlet

buy canada goose jacket cheap Westboro wants to make you angry. It wants you to scream back at it and stoop to its level. It wants to use hate to spread hate. buy canada goose jacket cheap

Canada Goose Parka I knew that going to counterprotest Westboro wouldn’t solve anything, but I needed to be there to defend Ebert’s honor. For all of the times that he championed the little guy and worked as an agent of change and social justice, I needed to stand up for him. I needed to be there. I couldn’t be silent. and arrived at State Street’s Holy Name Cathedral early, expecting that Westboro would already be busy setting up. I pictured vans full of identically dressed women with long hair and skirts of modest length and balding, white haired men with thick glasses, black ties and megaphones. I pictured people who wore hatred like it was a second skin, one they could peel off when the cameras were gone and the crowds parted. Canada Goose Parka

However, I found canada goose clearance sale no one, except for the funeral goers patiently waiting for their opportunity to honor a friend, loved one or stranger. During the funeral, multiple speakers testified that Ebert was a “man of the people” and a critic who represented America, and the service attracted all types: kids coming as funeral tourists, snapping pictures and commenting on how “cool” it was; colleagues like Michael Phillips, Rick Kogan and Richard Roeper; politicians and local celebrities; and character actors whose faces you couldn’t place, the inestimable litany of those his legacy touched.

Even Rahm was there, back from his time vortex.

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canada goose coats Tina smiled and told me that if I ever wanted to come back, the church was waiting. She handed me a card with St. Maria Faustina’s face on it and told me to pray for my own salvation and for Ebert’s. “You have a beautiful soul,” Tina said, as if she didn’t expect it to stay beautiful. I wanted to ask her what she thought Ebert’s soul looked like, but Tina moved on. She had more trading cards to hand out. canada goose coats

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Canada Goose online I began to wonder if I needed Westboro as much as they needed me. I wondered if any of us would find what we were looking for or even if it was to be found amongst Ebert’s ashes. Canada Goose online

Suddenly, the crowd began to file in. I looked back at the line behind me and out to the sea of reporters setting up to shoot, collecting mourners’ stories on pads of paper. One of the men standing ahead of me in line went back three times to the same AP journalist, because he kept finding more to say. When we would call her up to him, she smiled, “Got another story for me?”

I failed to spot our friendly protesters, so I was faced with a choice: I could stand outside with the critics of Ebert’s soul and the revelers of his eternal torment. I could wallow in the world’s hate and look into its worst face. Or I could join the people who came to be a testament to love, the folks who couldn’t stop remembering Ebert and the ones who refused to be deterred by rain or the gusts of the Chicago morning. I could turn this dark day into an opportunity for hope and transformation, fighting to keep his work and his memory alive.

I wasn’t dressed for a funeral. I canadian goose jacket came in my plainclothes, my well worn black jeans, Cubs hat and striped hoodie, backpack slung over one shoulder. But it didn’t matter what I was wearing. I was there.

I went inside and stood between two women, one of whom sported dark velour pants and leopard print sunglasses; she constantly smiled at me to show how fine she was. The other one came from Glenview and talked about Ebert as if he were a friend. Her name was Kathy. She called him “Roger,” just like everyone else did.

Kathy loved “Roger” so canada goose deals much that she had a portrait of Ebert painted in her house, along with pictures of Peter Sellers and other icons she grew up with. In the picture, Ebert sat on a balcony with Oprah, taking notes and enjoying the view. She hung the illustration in her entertainment room, so she could watch movies along with Ebert; they could enjoy the view together. Kathy told me that she got to show it to him once, and Roger loved it. He even asked for a copy.

canada goose clearance To her, Ebert wasn’t just a trusted critic. He was a window to the world. Rahm reminded us that “life is too short not to be shared with others,” and when Kathy approached Chaz during communion, she thanked her for sharing her husband with us. He was the most wonderful gift. canada goose clearance

When the service canada goose store ended, I wondered aloud whether the Westboro Baptist Church ever came out or if we had just missed them. Kathy and I laughed that a hate group would target a man known and beloved for his deliciously scathing reviews, sad that he couldn’t be around the comment. I asked her what Roger would have said about his hostile guests. She told me, “I don’t know, but if they came, I bet he would have loved it.”

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Canada Goose sale I thought of Roger Ebert when Westboro planned to picket the funerals of those who died in the Boston Marathon explosions on Monday. It’s too bad Westboro missed Ebert’s service. They could have learned something from him Canada Goose sale.

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